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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Vogon Poet: [QB] Hmm. I think what this thread is seriously lacking is me attempting to give advice. 8) First off, way to go Veersychops! I bet that took a lot of guts, more than I'd have. I've never actually asked anyone out like that, my relationships usually started out as friendships which rapidly got sexual (usually with drink involved), or as casual meetings in bars or clubs that rapidly got sexual (definitely with drink, and other things, involved). I was once set up on a blind date. We got along OK, but afterwards the mutual friend informed me that a long-time male friend of hers, hearing of this development, panicked and informed her of his true feelings for her. She returned those feelings, they got together, end of story. Was it a lie to spare my feelings? Don't know. She was small and blonde and cute, the kind who seems all innocent and prim and proper, not really my type, who turns out to be a hellcat in the sack. Oh, wait. . . Then, more recently, there was a girl I liked at work. We were vague acquaintances for a long time, until I became part of the same social circle as her. Then it became torture. I sort-of asked her out once, she couldn't make it. We never really got much chance for one-on-one interaction, it was more as part of a group. I had to see her go through several relationships while apparently not knowing I existed in that sense. Did she know? Probably, it just wasn't important to her then. Our best mutual friend informs me I likely had my chance, once evening when she called me, despondent over a relationship that was ending badly. She called me, and me alone; I was near where she was so I went over and we spent the evening hanging out; I didn't want to try anything because she was vulnerable then. I was also coming to the realisation, having seen her relationship style, that we wouldn't work together. But I still wonder what might have been. . . We've both found our oysters now, however, and are just as close friends, and like each others' other halves to boot. I'm not allowed to invite her to my stag weekend despite her being one of "the lads" but her boyfriend's coming along. Is that tour through the lowlights of my lovelife any help, or of any relevance? Probably not. But I lied getting it off my chest. 8) [/QB][/QUOTE]
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