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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Shik: [QB] This is why monogamy is, to me at least, a poor idea. The idea of "singular pair bonding" creates a whole possessive ideal that becomes akin to property. It's partly biological, yes...but mostly societal. Call it a 30/70 split. My girlfriend & I adore each other incredibly. I can think of no one more suited to me than her, & she will always be first & foremost in my heart. But she is not the only one. There are perhaps 10 other women who I love just as much, who I feel just as strongly for. Lindsey knows this, accepts this, & participates in it becasue she knows & loves some of them as well. By law, she will be my wife...but by heart, she will be the first of the nest. The concept of "fidelity" is not as black & white as society would have us believe. Is wishing for a blowjob from the hot piece of ass in Marketing the same as actually getting it? Is flirting with that cute guy with the tight ass at the latte bar a sign of trouble ahead? No, it doesn't have to be. Ed, your morals & ethics & takes on these issues are your way alone..& you need to reconcile them with hers. It IS possible to be in love with more than one person, I can say that from experience. The hard part is finding another person who is willing to accept that part of you...& this may be what you need to do. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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