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[QUOTE]Originally posted by EdipisReks: [QB] [QUOTE]Ed, your morals & ethics & takes on these issues are your way alone..& you need to reconcile them with hers. It IS possible to be in love with more than one person, I can say that from experience. The hard part is finding another person who is willing to accept that part of you...& this may be what you need to do.[/QUOTE]i understand all of that, but understanding does not take away the pain. i have been in positions (before i found erin) where i had feelings for several different women at once, so i know what it is like to love more than one person. however, i find that i can't devote a satisfactory amount of myself to anyone when i am thinking about more than one person. when i met erin, however, i found everything that i needed with her. she told me that she had found everything she needed in me. i believed her when she said that she would never leave me or even think of leaving me. i thought that when she admonished me for even glancing at another woman (normally this was an accidental thing, but i am as human as anyone else, and it is hard to not look) that this meant that she would follow her own advice. obviously she has not been internally consistant, since she says she is very attracted physically to this person. i don't try to posess her like an object (though sometimes i wish i could), and i have already told her that if she wants to go with someone else that she is free to do so and that i won't interfere. however, i think i need to tell her that if she does that she can't just assume that she can just come right back to me like nothing happened. i might have found everything that i needed in her before this happened, but i probably won't in the future. i think of myself as a pretty cosmopolitan person, but i think that a lot of naivete that i didn't recongnize in myself before has been revealed. --jacob [/QB][/QUOTE]
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