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Posted by Jeff Raven (Member # 20) on :

...My grandfather on my father's side died. Old age, we would say, but technically it was a hidden infection. It was a blessing, as he was suffering for a while now, and my grandmother was having a tough time.

He, for several years now, suffered from a type of dimensia, and the last time I saw him he did not recognize me, only my father. He always had a story to tell you(when he could hear your request for one), and was a very smart man. He was kind, and had a great sense of humor(I remember one of the jokes he told us, about why his hair kept falling out, it was because his brain was so big, it was pushing his hair out). I have quite a few memories of this grandfather, which I guess I'm lucky, because my other grandfather died before I was born. I have all these memories, and happy thoughts of him, I can only be joyful of what he gave me.

I once read somewhere that when an old man dies, a library dies with him, and I feel its true...I am glad I had access to that library while I could.

*sniff* *sigh*

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"We are all a product of the environment we live in.... the rest, good or bad, may be free will." Charles C. Bohnam

Posted by Diane (Member # 53) on :

I envy anyone with a grandfather like that. Both my grandfathers are still alive, but they've never had much to say to us grandchildren (Chinese people are like that). I rarely heard stories or anything.

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Posted by Baloo (Member # 5) on :

Jeff: I know what it is to grieve over the death of a close relative.

If he was as wonderful as you described, keep his traditions alive. Be smart and funny and caring. If you think you can't, just remember: you learned at the feet of a master.

--Baloo

Posted by RW (Member # 27) on :

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I'm very sorry to hear that. I lost my grandmother in 1993, and she too was suffering from (pretty severe) dementia. My mother was actually partly happy for her because she watched her suffer so much over the last few years. So I kind of know what you feel right now. Sigh.

Posted by Jaresh Inyo on :

Man, this is a downer. Sorry, Jeff.

One of my friends grandmother's is going pretty crazy too, but nobody's to sure why. They thought it was Alzheimers, but it wasn't. We now think that it could be tiny strokes in her brain, but we'll have to wait and see.

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Posted by bryce (Member # 42) on :

My prayers are with you and your family.

Posted by RW (Member # 27) on :

Now this is not a complaint, I'm just honestly curious. If you pray for someone, what exactly is it you pray for? I'm sorry for asking such a basic question, I'm not really into praying :]

Posted by Jeff Raven (Member # 20) on :

Thanks for all you guys' support. I really appreciate it. It is one of our traditions that the grandsons are the pallbearers in our family, and it seems that my brother and I are to lead the casket and such. I no longer feel sad, but honored, and somewhat happy.

Again, thanks.

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"We are all a product of the environment we live in.... the rest, good or bad, may be free will." Charles C. Bohnam

Posted by bryce (Member # 42) on :

I will say "Lord, help Jeff and his family cope with their lost and comfort them."

Posted by Jubilee (Member # 99) on :

*hugs Jeff*

I know there isn't much we can say to comfort you, or fill that void where once there was a person.... but as you said, it was a blessing to the man. He now rests happily in the summerland.

However, the Library has not died with him. Keep in mind that while you had access to the Library, you have recorded all these things in your mind and heart. Your grandfather's Library lives on in you, hon. He has not really died at all, because his spirit lives in your heart.

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Cherish your visions; cherish your ideas; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for if you remain true to them, your world will at last be built.

Posted by RW (Member # 27) on :

Bryce: Ah, I thought so. But I asked anyway because you never know until you know :]