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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Aban Rune: [QB] Well, I definitely wouldn't try to have the conversation when he's stuck with you for the rest of the night, especially if it's a brand new thought. For instance, in the middle of cooking dinner when he's guaranteed to have to be there for the next 4 or 5 hours, would've been the wrong time to say, "I'm thinking I'd really like to be married to you" for the very first time. I think he'll definitely need time to let it sit without feeling like an answer is expected in the next 30 minutes. I'd talk to him about it over lunch, or some other midday meeting after which he will be going away. Tell him you'd like to run something by him for him to think about over the next week or so. After you talk about it, depending how it goes, say, "Maybe we can talk about it again next week." Then *don't bring it up again for a week*. You may be surprised. He may be thinking the very same thing and you won't have to wait a week for your answer. But chances are, if that's the direction he was heading, you'd know it. You just have to have to have to tell him what you're thinking and give him the chance to feel how he feels and decide what he wants on his own time table. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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