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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Balaam Xumucane: [QB] I was here. It was easily the shittiest time of my life. We lived together. Found them in bed together. I'm still amazed no one died that night. It hurt for a long long time. It takes time, but it does start getting better. I won't lie to you, it never completely goes away, but sometimes you do forget about it for months and months at a time. Do you have any cynical single friends? Hang out with them. Listen to A LOT of Elvis Costello. Drive your car fast sometimes and listen to music really loud. Paint things. Build sculptures out in the desert and set them on fire. Distract yourself. Of course, the most difficult part, is letting it go. Omega's statements probably seem cruel and harsh, and that's definitely one reaction you can have that is very empowering. The thing is that he's got a point. When she decided that she did not love and respect you enough to be honest with you and end your relationship before starting another, the girl you loved ceased to exist. She had a choice and she chose to deceive and betray rather than communicate and take difficult action. Ask yourself whether that is a quality you want your significant other to have? It is world-crushingly disappointing that she isn't the person you thought she was, but there isn't anything you can do about that. You may not have realized it, but in some very important ways, she is a weak and selfish person for treating you in such a manner. She is unworthy of your love, and obviously it could not have lasted. Took me a year and a half. Still a little bitter (obviously). I'm also smarter about this sort of thing. Honesty is very sexy now. So be bitter. Listen to Elvis Costello. Drive too fast. Don't think about her. Drink some. Get a punching bag. Be busy. Have fun. You are an intelligent young man set to make your mark on the world. There is only one person on earth who is in any way responsible for your happiness. It's up to you to make that happen for yourself. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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