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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Baloo: [QB] And for heaven's sake, be spontaneous! Noe, most people don't really understand this, but spontaneity takes a lot of planning. For instance, rather than going up to her (having followed Liam's advice regarding appearance) and saying "You want to go out some time?" you might use a slightly different approach: "I'm going to the movies [or the dance, or pizza with friends -- whatever] Friday night. Would you like to come along?" The first approach allows too much leeway, and it's too vague. You appear to have no idea what you're going to be doing or when. The second approach show's you're a man of decision (hey! You're already planning to go!), you already know what you'll be doing, and you thought enough of her (the woman you're asking, of course) to want her company, if she's willing. If she says no, listen to [i]how[/i] she says no. If she says she'd love to go but she has to wash her hair that evening, you need to start phantasizing about someone else. If she can't go for a real, non-stupid reason, maybe she'd like to go out someother time when she [i]is[/i] free. It's less important to get a date than it is to discover if she's interested or think's you're about as interesting as a bowl of mud. [i]Someone[/i] (likely more than one) will think you're pretty special. Find [i]her[/i] and ask her out. She'll be more fun and will be interested in more than how much stuff you can buy her before you decide you've spent enough. --Baloo [/QB][/QUOTE]
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