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Well, folks, it's been a while, but the grades are up, and the absence has been worth the work I've accomplished. But the summer's here and I can stop by every so often and touch base with y'all.
I am in an interesting position. I was born and reared in the South. Virginia to be specific. In fact, you may say I come from the area whose decendents are former plantation material. I, however, come from a line that fought against those I live among. My great-great-grandfather came from New York, so I have a split lineage. I have been called (in non-verbal form, if not actual words) an aristocratic backward Southerner that should be disdained for what other people did to the Union and to Blacks, and by others a carpetbagging scalawag that should be held at arms length for how my people raped the land.
What I see here is something I've been studying all year in my industrial-organizational psychology classes. We see group labels attached, creating the "us vs them" mentality, which, by the presence of our defining characteristics, pits some against others. My advice to us all (including myself, I too fall into the trap) is to concentrate on what I/O pscyhologists call "superordinate goals" here. In the case of this forum, Star Trek and finding a better way to live with one another. It's fun to dwell on differences, we learn from them, but let's not let it get so out of hand it produces hard feeelings.
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not having anything to do with anything, but John Cleese's family name was originally "Cheese." An earlier relative had the name changed.
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Thanks, Sol! It's good to be back among friends again!
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Feste: TRAITOR!! *L* KIDDING..only kidding...really... *hides* *L* what? didn't LIKE the south? heh...
well, 'bout this here topic on Yankees....i figure as I've gotten sumpthin' t'say I might as well say it. (*L*...drops fake accent now) I'm from Nashville, originally Memphis, TN...we have "yankees" living all around us...something about nashville they must like...*snickers* the warmer weather maybe? Anyhow, Jeff and I have talked about this, and I basically came to this conclusion: I hate being called a redneck, hick, hillbilly, etc, associated with those of us in the south...he hates being called a yankee. (...even in jest, i found out ...ouch :P ) so, i make my statement: ignore Nike's motto (i hate nike anyway...hehe) "Just DON'T do it". Pleh. Dont' call me a hick, and i won't get all ticked and try and call you ...whatever you 'are' *L*
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I agree with the gentleman from Virginia about "us vs them" mentality. However, when we get into the thick of baseball season, may be overcome and compelled to write "Go Yanks!" from time to time.
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