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Sometimes, just sometimes, just a very, very little, I want my gf to leave me.
Especially when she doesn't wash the dishes for a week.
"Listen, hon, I'm the one earning all the money, driving 45 minutes each way, paying all the bills, buying the new furniture, making sure YOUR outstandig credit card bills get paid, and doing all the shopping, plus driving you anywhere you want to go when I'm home. I know you're sick and your head hurts and you have really bad fatigue problems, but is it asking the impossible that you wash your bowl when you're done with it and don't use a new glass EVERY TIME you want a drink of water??"
*sigh*
I love her.
[ July 03, 2002, 14:10: Message edited by: First of Two ]
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And vy, Herr First, are you not beink zer vun to be leaving her? Ja, ja, very interestink this is, ve are seeing zer underlyink psychosis. Please to be tellink me about your mother. 8)
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I answered that question with my last line. Her positives still outweigh her negatives.
She's my equal on most subjects (and surpasses me in most of the Arts), is quiet, reads a lot, agrees with most of my views on religion, economics, society, etc., likes Star Trek and SF and Fantasy, can spot a bargain a half-mile away, introduces me to new subjects and experiences (thereby holding my fickle attention), and on those rare occasions she's able, her NFBSKing is better than all those who came before her.
And she, for some reason I really can't fathom, loves ME.
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Now on to the making of films!
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Well, I'm sure that made RLB feel better.
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I'm not saying you should leave her, I just wondered at the way you phrased it - that you wish she'd leave you. It's perfectly natural, sometimes, to wonder if you should just call it a day; but if you're actually falling short of that and instead hoping she's the one to make the decision, then that's not right.
I want to know what this means, but, at the same time, I know I don't want to know...
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i've had a couple long conversations with Erin, and i have officicaly taken the moral high ground. i'm also quite angry that she didn't choose a better person to leave me for, as her new boyfriend seems quite the ass of little substance. it also helped that my brain made an appearance last night and i started to really think about everything. if Erin wasn't willing to give our relationship a little more time to fix the problem she saw (the problem being i needed her too much), and since she had no problem hooking up with a coniving son of a bitch on the first oppurtunity, then i don't think that we would have lasted. now my problem is that i don't know any other girls, since i have spent the last 3 years being completely devoted to one. i never fucking win.
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"now my problem is that i don't know any other girls, since i have spent the last 3 years being completely devoted to one. i never fucking win."
And? So fucking what? Getting into a relationship now would be one of the worst things you could do.
So you don't know any girls. Go out with your male friends. Go bowling. Go to a bar. Watch sports. Talk about nerdish stuff. Relax. Not being in a relationship doesn't actually make you a social cripple.
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yeah, but i miss female company. *shrugs* what happens, happens. just wish my friends weren't all gone tonight due to the 4th of july.
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No, being online too much makes one a social cripple...
It is night's like this that drive me up the wall.... I miss my family, my sone, and now, my ex-wife.... I should be watching the fireworks with my family, not typing this self-pity shit in this forum... But things don't work out quite like you intend them to, so you have to learn to deal with it and keep living....
I don't mean to be insensitive too your, or the Captain's, problems, but too be truthful, there is really know sage like advice anyone here can offer either of you. Each of us had to work our ways through our problems, some of us even before this internet thing was thought of... or during it's conception and basic text only versions....
Now, this old drunk has to go and fight off the urge to tip the bottle and get stupid drunk and going on a self-pity trip...
Life sucks, live it or kill yourself....
If you have tried both, then yes, you maybe a loser...
Like a redneck joke...
If that was in bad taste, oh well...
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"some of us even before this internet thing was thought of... or during it's conception and basic text only versions...."
Wow. That's the first time I've ever seen someone try and show maturity by referring to old pre-MOSIAC web browsers.
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Yeah, feeling older than I should, tomorrow is also my birthday....
mid-life bs happening...
so don't mind me too awful much...
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