Love is picking up the third sneeze when your wife only sneezes twice....
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quote:Originally posted by TSN: I thought the same thing, but I think he was referring specifically to his own marriage, which, presumably, has thus far lasted five years.
Nope, married her last year. We lived together for quite awhile. (Not five years.)
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quote:Originally posted by TSN: Given your wording, it sounds like you're talking about a situation you're currently experiencing.
Nothing gets past you, does it Timmy?
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Tim, that's easier said than done in this situation.... why? Because I'm not even DATING him! So it's kinda hard to dump him when I'm not dating him.....
Stupid boy.
We were supposed to take a trip to Seattle this weekend- my car, 'cause he's without one right now, and I was taking him to meet up with some of his air force buddies, then I was going to spend some time with my friends. Well, he changed the plans on me (remember: My car, my gas, MY TIME!) and decided that it'd just be a day trip. We'd leave this morning, go to Hooters with his friends, and then we'd drive bvack after that.
"Sorry sweety... there's really not going to be any time for you to go see your friends. I need you to be at Hooters with me and the boys so they can see you..."
Nope. Nada. Not gonna play that game. I'm not going to risk my life TWICE in a day by driving over a pass that my car isn't equipped to handle, especially after dark, so that he can get wasted at Hooters and show me off. I tried to compromise when I said I'd take him (it WAS a trip for both of us, at first), he pushed to have it his way or no way, so we're not going. It's not worth the gas $, it's not worth putting 1000mi on my car, it's not worth the stress, it's not worth the fact that I'm LOSING money 'cause I'd have to call in sick all day to go, and it's REALLY not worth letting him think he can have whatever the f*ck it is he wants.
I DID really want to see my friends, but it's just too dangerous of a drive right now to take alone, so I'll go later. Stupid boy. BUt I'm not bitter.
And now he's pouting about it. He's such a woman! Sh*t. It's just so f*cking lame.
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-------------------- "Lotta people go through life doing things badly. Racing's important to men who do it well. When you're racing, it's life. Anything that happens before or after is just waiting."
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I'm in love, unlike, it seems, many people here, so I'll try to give an idea of what it's like. However people have been trying for thousands of years so I doubt my attempt will be much good. 8)
What I feel for my wife is unlike anything I've felt for anyone before. I thought I'd been in love, but it seems I haven't, really. Sometimes I just sit back and think about it all and it takes my breath away. Speaking of which, some soppy love aongs start to make sense all of a sudden. And I find myself blubbing at the end of films like You've Got Mail.
I was a loner who by and large enjoyed my own company. The idea of wanting to spend all my time with someone, like I do now, would have seemed unbelievable to me two years ago. We think the same way in a lot of situations, the same thing occurs to us as something to say at the same time. We pick the same item off a menu as the one thing we'd really like to try - and quite often pick the same number-two choice as well, so we can have one each and try a bit of both.
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I should hope the last part improved, not being alone anymore and all.....
Finishing your sentenances for you, and not being angry about it is another thing... The person that you love can do things that if other people did them you'd want to kill them over....
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quote:Originally posted by Vogon Poet: What I feel for my wife is unlike anything I've felt for anyone before. I thought I'd been in love, but it seems I haven't, really. Sometimes I just sit back and think about it all and it takes my breath away. Speaking of which, some soppy love aongs start to make sense all of a sudden. And I find myself blubbing at the end of films like You've Got Mail.
And the sex is terrific. 8)
Yeah. All of those things were what I was experincing earlier this year. (Except, well, I'm not too keen on getting myself a wife.) Along with everything just feeling...RIGHT. I mean, every touch, look, everything just had this feeling as if it were the most normal thing in the world for us. Like we were one together.
Thing is, even though he walked away five months ago...a lot of it lingers. I still think of him when I hear romantic songs, or somehow place him in movies and stories that turn lovey-dovey. The hardest part of all of this has been sticking to my guns about it. I mean, a huge chunk of me wants to just up and track him down in NYC but another part of me knows that I need this education I am getting before I can do myself any good, career-wise. Which was the major cause of the breakup in the first place. He was impatient and didn't want to wait the 10 months for me to graduate. And no matter how I have tried to move on, something always gets in the way of me going with someone else. (Mainly the guy's girl. Grr.)
Ohhhh. And to top it off. He talked to one of our mutual friends yesterday and she kinda played along not knowing we had broken up. When she asked him if he had broken it off to move....he said "for the time being."
What the hell?
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Love is one part obsession, two parts lust, three parts endorphines, and all mixed together to create something that makes me settle down with a guy instead of doing what single guys do at a Saturday night.
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Sit in an overstuffed armchair watching Food Network and crying that your life is nothing like it should be and desperating praying that God would give the opportunity to press the giant reset button so that you could set things right?
Oh, wait, that's what I do on Saturday nights. Nevermind.
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I'm not talking from a wealth of experience here (unlike Lee who is having TEh G000d S3XXXXX!!! But he cries as You've Got Mail, so he's obviously suffered head trauma of some kind), but I'd describe it as something like:
"Love is getting the opportunity to have sex with your best friend, and not minding when you don't have sex with them."
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