I suppose I could say 'to each his own,' but the idea of sex outside of marriage I find disgusting, especially when its more gratification that actually loving the other person.
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*thinks about how many people are having sex without being married*
You must have a handful, meeting people everyday that you find disgusting.
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Yeah, but only if everyone he meets discusses their sexual habits.
I, for one, completely agree with Jeff. I don't approve of people's actions, but it's none of my business. They can do whatever they want with themselves. As for me, I'd never marry a guy who's had premarital sex. If that means staying single forever, so be it.
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I think the real issue is whether or not someone who can't keep the most basic oath of loyalty to one's spouse can be trusted to keep an oath of service to a country. Given that Slick Willie cannot and then lies about it tells me all that I need to know about his fitness for office. To accept the opposite would be to believe that someone who can't remain faithful to one would remain trustful to millions. Uh, survey says?
Yes, other prominent officeholders have had extramarital affairs. However, that does not excuse Willie's conduct, his lies, his use of government personnel (Re: taxpayer monies) to cover up his pathetic behavior, and smear campaigns against those who expose his gaffes.
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quote:Right now, he is the greatest presidential embarassment in American history.
Mmm....Dick?
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quote: Right now, he is the greatest presidential embarassment in American history.
Ultra Mangus beat me to it. Richard Nixion!
Those of you who are younger then me are going to find out some thhings in the next few years of your life. Namely that far more people lie then you believe now, and you will be surprised to find out how many people cheat on there spouses.
Zyial: Good Luck. I hope you find the right guy, but if he is old enough to get married, and has been through college, and says he hasn't had sex, he's lieing.
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Of course it is, Frank. There are those of us who simply don't have a snowball's chance of getting a girl in the first place.
Ziyal:
I don't know about refusing to marry someone if they weren't a virgin. If I met a great girl who wasn't, but acknowledged that it was a mistake and truely regretted it, I wouldn't hesitate to go out with her.
And at least Nixon had the decency to resign.
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OK...so I try to inject a little humor to deflate things..smack someone for not realizing that my humor was just that & not a relevant argument...flippantly cite examples of basic human nature....& I'm "irresponsible & irrational?" HWA??
If this is based upon my sexual philosophy as stated here, then that's not fair, man. Hey, if savin' yourself for marriage or "true love" is your thing, that's cool with me. Keep on keepin' on & all that. But PLEASE don't tell me that your reason is that your projecting your ideals onto me without a disclaimer? Please?
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